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Featured this Month:

From the Desk of Father Rubey
3 days ago by Father Ruby
During the month of October we celebrate two rather different events in our history. The first one is Columbus Day when we celebrate the man who discovered America.
Restoring Family Stability after a Suicide
3 days ago by Cynthia Waderlow MSE, LCSW
Every family has various needs for structure. As they grow, families will create the rules and routines that support their ability to function. We know that families have different resources and various amounts of structure supporting day-to-day living, but if they have inadequate structure and routine for too long there can be emotional and behavioral reactions.

Archives:

From the Desk of Rev. Richard Jakubik
Wednesday, April 01, 2015 by Rev. Richard Jakubik
Sometimes in life, a tragic event occurs that fractures the very foundation on which we stand.  Survivors of suicide navigate in a world that is profoundly and irrevocably different and challenging from the world they once knew. Survivors now find themselves in an unexpected and life long struggle with the tragic loss of a loved one to suicide.  Grief and its complications manifest as painful thoughts, feelings and behaviors that can derail the natural process of healing. Survivors who experience complicated grief go through deep, acute, and intense levels of pain, that often leave them feeling “stuck” and left behind.
From the Desk of Deborah Major
Sunday, March 01, 2015 by Deborah Major
The loss of a loved one to suicide represents a critical turning point, because it imposes into the survivor’s life a crisis of attachment and of identity.  What we hear in the first moments of every caller’s voice is shock, devastation, confusion and a sense of feeling utterly overwhelmed.  We hear these questions sometimes openly stated, at other times implied beneath the details of each caller’s story: “How am I to make sense of this? What am I supposed to do next?  How could this have happened? Why did he do this?”  Often callers interpret the suicide as containing a message from the loved one that the survivor feels compelled to decode: “What was he trying to tell me?”  Those who did not receive a note persist in the hope of finding one, a final communication that would explain why she chose to end the relationship so abruptly and in such a painful manner.   Those who did receive a note return to it repeatedly, hoping to understand the loved one’s frame of mind and the meaning beneath the words.  Suicide, more than other deaths, holds significant relationship meaning for those left behind.  In the earliest phases of the grief process, survivors see the suicide as encrypted with deep meaning about the relationship that they shared with the deceased.   Indeed, if we lose a loved one to cancer, the crisis of attachment may also emerge, but the struggle with the relationship meaning will never be connected to the cancer itself.